Bye Rapunzel SJ

Most of the girls love pretty long hair. There goes the same for SJ. But if you can't take good care of your hair, it will become a disaster and hers had became one -- Dandruff. Tried asking her to use Head & Shoulder Shampoo, but it's useless and she slept with wet hair despite my warning. Worse still, she doesn't mind glue, candy or whatsoever stick to her hair. Omg, it's really disgusting. *facepalm*

But~ Sometimes life is literally fated. Just when I'm still considering whether to cut her hair, YL mentioned that she wants to cut her hair to shoulder length, so ~ Great, no need to consider further, let the two of them have haircut together. SJ doesn't dare to argue or reject this haircut, because she knew that she was given a chance to grow long hair but she did not take good care of it. So ya, I captured down the last few moments with her long hair and she went off to saloon with YL unwillingly.

#byebyelonghair💇

Back from haircut, she broke into tears the moment she saw me. Cried for 15 minutes then got chased home for a hair wash. Throughout the day, she slowly realized.. Having such hairstyle, she washed her hair without much hassle, no more tangled hair like before and will no longer have messy hair curtain on her face now. She won't be called Sadako anymore (oh ya, by me. 😂)

End of the day, she told us that she "kind of" like her hair now, so much smoother and look neater now. My interpretation is that she likes her new hairstyle now but need to persist a bit because she cried too loud just now. 😂 But overall, still glad that she likes it. 😄

Positive vs Negative

I had a bad dream just now, the realistic feel made me scared and my heart beat hastened. I don't remember the exact dream but it seems to have some hidden meaning and trying to enlighten me --

"Positive vs Negative, whichever you choose will reflect on your life. Don't expect to live a positive life with a negative mind. Adopt the right attitude can convert negative stress into a positive one. Do not allow the energy of negative people to affect you and turn you into one of them. Don't let negativity grow and ruin your life when you have so much to be positive about."

Life is apparently a C that lives between B and D:

Birth (B)

Choice (C)

Death (D)

From the day you're born till the day you died, you will encounter countless of choices to make and your choices will decide the path of your life. I really need to learn to accentuate the good things that happen in my life and preclude those negative thoughts or feeling. They're just draining my energy which had been registered as Private Limited. So ~ Let's get on with our life well and happily ~ Ganbatte ~ *(=^-^=)/*

2018 CNY - Day 1

Bz playing for this CNY, will try to upload CNY post soon. (I hope, Lol) Enjoy some photos first.

CNY mood Valentine's Day

14 Feb, Valentine's Day and it's also Friendship's Day! Other than wishing your Valentine, remember your friends too!  😄

14 Feb, a date which gradually not our ocassion anymore. Old couple and we had naturally became the save money category. So I suppose next year vday will be at Kopitiam? 😂 Think so, because my hub not really interested in celebrating such event/occassion. If he had a choice not to celebrate, he will agree and rather stone at home. HAHAHA!! 

Fortunately, I still managed to get a dinner at Ajisen and had my crave satisfied for this year vday. Though not very satisfied with kena rejected and reapprove of my suggestion, but it's ok, I'm trying to master Forgive and Forget, especially when it is not a major issue. At most if you see carefully, you will see me mumbling to myself or roll eyes only. Small matter ~ 😂

After I'm done with online meetup collection, went to do last minute cny shopping at NTUC, omg, it's extremely "human[人] mountain[山] human[人] sea[海]" (crowded). After kena sardines and strave for half a day, we finally settled down and had our yummylicious dinner at Ajisen Gourmet. 

They released limited time Ramen set, Spicy Ebi and Garlic Ebi, both available in soup base or sauce base. I tried the 🍤Spicy Ebi Ramen (soup) and I like the fleshy prawn. I can taste the freshness and fleshy prawn meat with that fragant yet not so spicy sauce. But honestly, I will only try once. 🙊 Because for 3 prawns with the normal usual Ajisen soup base, I think paying $18.90 (before GST and SC) is kind of overpriced. I'll still prefer my favourite Pork Curry Ramen. 💜

💖 Ramen crave satisfied! 😋🍲

After feeding ourselves with good food, we continue with our cny groceries shopping and end our vday with bags of groceries. 😂 Remember, enjoy every moment with your love ones and surround yourself with love everyday. 💕

💜 Happy Valentine's / Friendship's Day 💜

Happy Birthday, My Love!

Today is a memorable day. Other than is my hub's birthday, my baobei JL dropped his front tooth. The funniest thing is that he dropped it when he's eating his lunch, fortunately he did not swallow down together with the food. 😂

My "bogay" (toothless) baobei. 

Ok, back to topic. This year CNY falls on 16/02/2018 and it's a bad timing, I think. Because need to prepare for CNY, Hub need to do spring cleaning on his birthday while I tend the shop helplessly. *hugs* Best thing, whole family waiting for him to do spring cleaning only and the rest just shake leg. Still got some people shamelessly occupied a room, own room clean but mess up the living room/pathway with her unwanted stuff . *facepalm* It's ok, Hub did a massive cleaning, good bye "things" (or shall we call it, rubbish instead) ~

Anyway! For Hub's bday, I intended to bring him for a karaoke session since it had been long time since we had sing together. 🎤 But.. We opened shop early in the morning and he did spring cleaning for his house, he must be tired after a long day, so sadly I cancelled the plan. After close shop, it's already 8.30pm, no choice but to go for a quick and simple meal at Chomp Chomp @ Serangoon Garden for Hub's birthday. 

Happy Birthday, My Love

Ordered our usual favourite Hokkien Mee, Chicken wing (Must have!), satay and of course, big big cup of Sugar Cane juice. Yum yum! Seems small portion for 2 pax, right? But it's enough to make us felt soooo bloated. Our appetite had became smaller, it's a good sign, can cut down some weight (hopefully. hahaha). Went to get some snacks for the kids and got home saw this:

"Which one look more like mummy?"

Darling SJ made me choose one and I chose..... SJ's! Why? Because JL drew pregnant me with a baby inside which I am not, for sure~ Of course choose SJ's one. Luckily JL won't mind this kind of things, he mostly mind about we don't give him food and we don't love him (obviously we do love him!). So.. It's ok. HAHAHA! 🙈

💭Hub, though this year we did not have any special celebration but want to let you know that I really care about celebrating your birthday🎂.. Because of your birthday, there is a you👨 in this world and I'm very grateful about it. Not celebrating vday is fine with me, what I mind is not able to celebrate your bday and I felt kind of sad about it. But still, thank you for coming to this world and love me, you're the best thing that ever happened to me. 😘 I love you and it's beyond words. 💜 Happy birthday, honey. 🎉 Wish you great health and happiness for eternity. 🙆

Air Fried Pineapple Balls

Yesterday went back LN and did the 1st batch of CNY snacks, end up no time to do cleaning. So today is a busy day for all of us. Spring cleaning and DIY of CNY must have, Pineapple🍍tarts/balls. 

1st time doing this Pineapple tarts, scared but excited. 😂 Fortunately, it's edible, super yummy somemore. Appearance not that nice, but it melted in the mouth. Darling boy can't stop, he kept on sneak around the CNY snacks and eat whenever he can. Hahaha. 

Tiring but very satisfied Sunday! Clean bling bling house with all successful CNY goodies. ✌ Happy me. Next week, another busy week. Ganbatte! 💪

Air Fried CNY Goodies

Finally got time to use Air Fryer and do some CNY goodies for the first time. Not professional but got this interest. No matter is cooking, baking or do things, I love trying out and get the satisfication whenever I succeed unexpectedly. Lols. 

This evening when I just started doing the CNY goodies, kena some hiccups but managed to solve it before I get disheartened. 😂 So here I am, first attempt and I made it! ✌ Though not as yummy as those on shelf one, but at least Hub and kids think it's yummy. I don't expect much, so long as they're not burnt or inedible. Then also need to pray the crisp can last longer.. 🙏

AF Honey Corn Flakes, Crabstick and Chicken Floss Roll, successful! 💕 Next attempt, Pineapple🍍Tarts! Wish me success! Jiayou! 💪

Simple Happiness

Simple happiness achieved by nomnom my favourite Hainanese chicken rice, Boon Tong Kee for dinner. My favourite BTK outlet is still this one located at Bukit Timah. 😄

With the opening of Downtown Line, it had became so convenient to reach there, just 5 min (or lesser) walk👣 from DT5 Beauty World station Exit B and here you are, Boon Tong Kee~ 💜

For the past few days, I think I was really negatively zombiefied with no smile on my face. When Hub surprisingly brought me to BTK, I sensed happiness. I love yummy food and can be easily satisfied with good food. Yes, 吃货, that's me. 😻

2 Pax Chicken

Fragrant, juicy and tender! Definitely must eat! 

Dip with their chilli sauce (they provide ginger sauce too!), coupled with their hot piping aromatic chicken rice.. Oh my god~ Yummylicious! 😋

Golden Fried Tofu

Oh my~ Another lovely one, cripsy on the outer and silky smoooooth on the inside, came with mayonnaise. But recently I start to get old, I add chilli instead of mayo, still as yummy! 💕

Sambal Kang Kong

Some zi-char tend to cook Kang Kong till too "old" and no longer cripsy. But at BTK, u won't get such worries. Most importantly, not so oily! 😄

Whenever we went BTK for dinner, we will certainly order the above mentioned dishes, but for 2 pax seems too much. Wanna omit a dish from our order, but we felt that none of them can be dispensable. So it's ok, just be it. Hahaha. 

In the past, I can wolf down 2 plates of BTK chicken rice. Now old already, I felt full after 3/4 of a portion. Don't care! I can't stop, I still finished up a plate of the rice, all by myself! 😂 Hub and I felt soooooo bloated after the dinner but our taste buds sure got fully satisfied~ BTK@Bukit Timah never fail to do so.. Definitely one of the best chicken rice in Singapore! 👍

💭Hub, thank you for realizing my negativity and tried to brighten me up with this delectable dinner. 🌻 I will source for solution and change for a better me to let our relationship perpetuates endlessly (instead of my ⛔negativity which might ruin all my happiness.). 💖Love you and thank you. 😘

Negativity striked

有追看《终极一班5》的人都知道，被魔化的裘球最近一直在说：

“世界的黑暗和痛苦是能被接受的。

事情只会越来越糟，不抱希望就不会失望。 

负负得正！ 复能量真棒！”

真的不是这么好的洗脑台词，但我却同意“事情只会越来越糟，不抱希望就不会失望”。至于其他的就太~负了，不能同意。😂 完全同意的话，我不就也被魔化了嘛，不要啦。🙈

10年前，我抱着幸福美满甜甜蜜蜜的希望美梦，时间逐渐的抹杀掉我的幻想。我哭泣，没人懂，没人知道。现在我的眼泪也已经变得一文不值，换来的不是拥抱安慰，而是责骂。

“可以不要哭吗？人家以为我在欺负你。”

我当时真的傻眼，傻爆了。我实在不知道该找谁哭泣~ 不想在朋友面前毁你的形象，我只能咽下自己的泪水或自己躲在被窝里，咬着唇叫自己别哭。我知道你对我很好也很迁就我，但有些事你就是.... 😔 很多时候，拥抱就能安抚很多的事，但你就是不懂。

所以！8年前吧，我就一直跟自己说：

“哎呀，别想，他不会做你想他做的事。希望了，你只会伤心，哭泣，失望。不要想！睡觉！”

“反正我的意见也不是意见。也是问爽而已。同意就好了，免得又弄得他不开心或把场面弄僵。”

“还是不要告诉他，说了，他也不了解，只会扭曲我的本意。算了。”

时间一分一秒飞逝，我的负面思想也不自觉越来越多。无论是要解决家庭，朋友还是什么问题都好，我都会先把最坏的事列出。当你觉得事情会越来越糟，但却美满的解决/结束，你还会感到一丝丝的愉悦。如果~ 你抱着完美落幕，换来的可能就是站在悬崖边的感受。就像我爸的事，我一直告诉自己，他会好起来的。结果呢？我从茶水间来回不到5分钟的时间，我爸就突然停止呼吸了.....

所以，真的.. 我没办法抱着希望去看待人事物。噢！不行啦，我的负面情绪越来越强烈！我的天呀！*facepalm*

Ok! Let's think this way, Pacific Ocean can't sink a ship unless the water gets inside it. There goes the same for negativity. It will only perpetuates itself, cluttered your mind with dissatisfaction and happiness won't be able to come by. 

Whenever negativity striked, we tend to dwell over the past which hurt us. Holding onto all these hurtful past, it's like drinking poison, either you die or the relationship you cherished die. It's not worth it! Let's move on and don't let negativity rob your present happiness. Let go, move on and be happy! Go go go! 

TRIM hair only

My hair! I want to trim only but end up become chest length. 😭 I know it will grow back, but still heart💔ache to see it got shorten in 5 min. I got intention to perm my hair at Q3/Q4 2018.. Now~ 😓

How valuable is an apology?

I don't understand what's so difficult about apologizing for ur mistake recently, still want to argue with me for your mistake? Hello ~ I'm telling you politely and u wanna make me become the one at fault?? Omg.. Seriously got irritated. You're the one being ridiculous and unreasonable, not me! You're twisting my purpose of telling you.. Forget it! 🔥

I really don't know how valuable is your apology.. But I know.. If this continued, it will gradually lost its values and became worthless one day. 

When you've done something wrong, swallow your pride, admit it and be sorry. Don't ever ruin an apology with excuses attached to it, it's pointless.... *sigh*